Pastoral Vitality

THURS MAY 23 or TUES MAY 28 1:30-3pm Zoom

As your Family of Parishes creates a vision for the future and continues to think about planning together, it is important for parish leaders to effectively communicate that vision to parishioners.

Join archdiocese Director of Communication Mike Schafer, along with other Family Leadership Team members, for one of two online meetings.  (Each session will have the same content.)  We’ll discuss how pastors and other parish leaders can ensure that the agreed-to vision stays front-and-center by utilizing communication best practices across a variety of media.

Communicating the Vision

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Fr. Jan Kevin Schmidt

Director, Pastoral Vitality

Since the beginnings of our efforts with Beacons of Light you have heard time and again the importance of keeping the “Why” of what we are doing in the forefront of our minds. If we do not remain focused on the “Why” and forget the reason behind the endeavor, our plan will fail!  As a reminder, that “Why” is specifically, “Missionary Discipleship” … bringing others to Jesus! That “Why” is about building up and not tearing down our faith communities!

With that, I have also to point out that there is a “Why” as to the difficulty of our efforts as well. Why is this so tough, sometimes heartbreaking, thankless work that none of us really has a desire for? Why do some people struggle so much with the change that needs to happen? There are many “Why’s” that contribute to this difficulty!

Having just spent late January and early February travelling throughout the Archdiocese to speak with 1,500+ parishioners, some of whom are upset, I must admit that if there is one primary takeaway, I have come to realize it is this: that many of our people are in denial. For them, everything is just fine the way it is or there is really no reason to be making these tremendous unnecessary changes! That may certainly seem so, but the landscape will continue to change and that is what we are trying to get ahead of. How can we better help them to understand this … in a few places the task is daunting.

While there are certainly other reasons beyond denial it is at the forefront (and is an expected stage in the process of grief that so often accompanies change) in coming to an acceptance of the necessary changes ahead.

Denial is scale-invariant and universal — we’ve all experienced it in some way or another in our lives and now in our efforts with Beacons of Light. By scale-invariant, I mean the individual, household, enterprise, city, state and empire and yes, even the Church all experience denial.

Denial has several signature characteristics:

1. The more profound and consequential the issue, the more stubborn our denial. When a minor cut reddens, we don’t go into denial that it’s infected, we simply treat it with greater care.

But when the unmistakable signs of heart disease appear, we find ways to deny the reality because it’s too upsetting and frightening. We want very desperately to think it will go away on its own and we’ll be fine, and nothing in our life will change.

2. The strength of our denial flows from the tacit understanding that if we let even a tiny bit of doubt break through our dam of denial, the whole foundation will give way…perhaps some of what we are seeing in our small towns and bergs where life is flowing a little slower and more protected from the outside world and where our communities parish identity is so tied up with the local town. The power of denial originates in the impermeability of the barrier blocking warning signs that all is not well.

In our metropolitan areas we have reticence in reducing Mass schedules even though our capacity utilization rates are far below what should be considered ideal for a vibrant and celebratory norm for the Sunday Eucharist. “We have a multitude of retired priests and so we continue to provide for the convenience of the people rather than realizing fewer Masses with larger numbers of faithful in attendance actually attracts more faithful to a prayer that is a more beautiful expression of our thankfulness.” One in which we can afford proper and beautiful expressions in the lavishness of our spaces, art & environment, music, preaching and so much more.

When in denial, if the diocese, parish, church building, school, relationship, etc. is no longer sustainable or viable, we must shut out all doubt and evidence because even a rivulet of doubt and evidence will quickly erode the dam of our denial and collapse our sense of security, control and predictability.

And so we hold fast to the idea that these chest pains are merely indigestion, and just because our churches are full every weekend after COVID-19 and the growing negative trend continues to exist, we are still in good shape. The church may be full at the moment but our friends are dying off, moving to warmer climes for jobs and retirement, our kids don’t come home after college all which belies an alternative reality in which everything is fine, under control, progress and growth are still positive and unstoppable and so on.

Doubling Down on Denial

When challenged, and especially as we are with Beacons of Light, we become defensive and angry, as if our security and identity are under attack. Since we’ve tied our identity and security to fixed, rigid standards, should those standards erode and decay, we deny the erosion because we feel our own security, identity and sense of control are giving way and might collapse.

To avert this disaster, we shore up our dam of denial, making sure no shred of doubt or evidence gets through to threaten us.

This strategy is terribly misguided, of course, because denying reality doesn’t make the threat go away, it magnifies the risk of collapse. Denial can be summarized as the stubborn inability to tell the truth because our fear of losing control as the foundations of our life crumble beneath us is so great that we’re compelled to cling to denial and fantasy:

In our situation the Church or Parish losing membership doesn’t matter, the parish or the archdiocese can just pretend that everything is OK or we will not cooperate with the initiative to save our communities and everything will be just fine, we like things just the way they are. “Things” just the way they are isn’t working! Reality is settling in throughout our archdiocese…yet, some are still in denial.

Reality is only a threat if we’ve forsaken flexibility, adaptability, problem-solving and the willingness to make sacrifices and accept failure — self-reliance. The appeal of denial is uniquely powerful because it offers us a means to cling to our security, identity and sense of control without having to actually do anything.

Just as we’d rather ignore our vital signs and risk expiring from a heart attack than face the sacrifices and challenges of revolutionizing our diet and fitness, we’d rather risk maintaining the status quo rather than facing the sacrifices and challenges of bringing about greater vitality to our parishes in the future!

As we now find ourselves on the journey of Lent running quickly towards the celebration of Holy Week and the Triduum,  it is a time perhaps to recall the denial of the Apostles about the inevitability of what was to come but also to recall the great joy of the Easter that followed and the new life arisen that has propelled us to this place in history.

Let us invoke the Holy Spirit on this Lenten journey that seems for us at times to go beyond the forty days, so as we enter into Easter, we may truly see the promise of new life offered in the renewal of our Archdiocese.

Symposium for Diocesan Pastoral Planners

The Journey to a Synodal Church: Synodal Spirituality, Processes and Structures for Diocesan Pastoral Planning

May 21-22, 2024         University of Dayton, Ohio

Sponsored by the Archdiocese of Cincinnati & the University of Dayton Institute for Pastoral Initiatives

As part of the global synod on synodality, diocesan pastoral planning personnel from throughout the United States will gather to discuss the place of synodality in diocesan planning efforts, leading towards a truly synodal Church.

Among questions to be answered are:

  1. What are essential elements of a spirituality and ecclesiology to support the journey to a Synodal Church?
  2. What are the important characteristics of effective synodal processes and structures for addressing critical issues facing the local Church?
  3. How can synodality be incorporated into pastoral planning,g. parish reconfiguration and reconfiguration of Catholic Schools?
  4. What formation is required of the People of God (bishops, priests and laity) to undertake the journey to a Synodal Church?

Participants will include:

  • Members of the fledgling network of diocesan pastoral planners (formed virtually fall 2023)
  • Theologians interested in and writing upon the topic of synodality or ecclesiology
  • National organizations (e.g. PartnersEdge and Catholic Leadership Institute) who are supporting diocesan planners, especially those actively engaged in pastoral planning.
  • Pastors and parish leaders engaged in pastoral planning processes

Program content will begin Tuesday morning and continue through late afternoon Wednesday.  The symposium will include panel discussions, small group conversation, networking time, best practice sharing, as well as prayer and fellowship, and presentations from leaders in the field.

(There will be a reception for those arriving Monday evening and dinner for those remaining Wednesday evening.)

Schedule

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PROGRAM COST

Registration for the symposium is $150 per person.  This includes materials and all meals (2 breakfasts, 2 lunches, 1-2 dinners, reception Mon night, snacks and beverages.)

Participants are responsible for their own lodging and transportation.  (Dayton International Airport is most convenient, but Cincinnati-Northern Kentucky is not unreasonable.)

 

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Fr. Martin Fox

Pastor

NE-9 Family of Parishes

As I write this, I’m killing time before a meeting later. And I’m reading items on Facebook. That includes people I know and respect, expressing deep unhappiness about the “Beacons of Light” reorganization plan now being implemented in the Archdiocese of Cincinnati.

The basic thing is organizing approximately 200 parishes into approximately 55 or so “families,” but eventually, they will become 55 or so combined legal entities. This upsets people, understandably, because it means what had been a stand-alone parish will become part of a larger, multi-site parish. Many people are deeply concerned that what they love will go away.

There are many angles from which to approach this. Let me try to hit them all briefly.

First: what will or won’t “go away.”

There’s NO GOOD REASON (but could be BAD ones) for any “parish” to “go away.” Let me explain the quotes, because I think a lot of the unhappiness derives from the multivalent meaning of words.

When you say “my parish,” do you mean the legal structure; or do you mean the physical place; or do you mean the community of people for whom the legal structure was created, and for whom the place is a center of gravity? Three different realities, they are not identical or coterminous.

To add clarity, let me create three clunky terms: “parish-corporation,” “parish-place” and “parish-people.” Follow? Hang with me please

The legal structure is boring but important.

A parish, under church law, is essentially a corporation. It stands apart from other parish-corporations, and therefore, the persons who are legally responsible for them must administer them in a certain way. That means the pastor, who alone — other than the bishop — has the legal authority to act on behalf of that parish-corporation. His moral and legal duty to administer that corporation is serious, and it is greatly complicated when he is asked to administer more than one, of the multiple parish-corporations are adjacent to, or intertwined with, each other. This is not well understood by those who get upset about Beacons of Light.

That said, changing the legal structure — i.e., combining multiple parish-corporations into a united parish-corporation — does not necessarily change a whole lot for the parish-place and parish-people involved.

Imagine in the town of Happy Valley, you have three parishes: St. Kunagunda, St. Sylvester and St. Christina the Astonishing. At one time, each was helmed by separate pastors; but for various reasons, they now share a single pastor, and have for some time, and are almost certain to be so led for the indefinite future.

I will skip over, for now, why combining the three parish-corporations into one is advisable, and just assume that it is will happen. What does this change for the physical locations and the people who gravitate there? Does it force any outcome?

The answer is NO. There is no necessity that any of the three locations undergo a single, meaningful change. There might be changes in tax ID numbers, or record-keeping. There would likely be signs saying, “St. Kunagunda Church, part of St. Oddo Parish.” But all the activities that took place the day before the combining of legal structures are still underway the day after.

I know what you’re saying: but it’s a prelude to closing ___ Parish!

Tell me, what benefit would there be to anyone to close a church that is well attended and well supported (as opposed to one that is neither)? What does the pastor or bishop gain by doing it?

Other than misery, alienation and people who used to give, but no longer will?

Only an extremely stupid pastor or bishop would mess with success. I’m not saying there aren’t stupid pastors or bishops. I’m saying, that’s not usually the case — not that stupid.

Pretty often, the closure comes because people drift away, the money needed to keep things going isn’t there, debts mount, and then…why be surprised if the place closes?

On the other hand, if the people will support keeping a place active, there is no benefit to fighting them, and great benefit in giving them what they want.

Now, if there aren’t enough priests, that may affect the number of Masses. But in the case of Beacons of Light, that isn’t the critical issue. The issue that is generating great unhappiness in some quarters is precisely the legal structures changing, which are taken (I think) to presage other changes.

All I mean to do is challenge that assumption. I think a very good argument can be made (and I will try presently to make it) that combining the corporate structure can and will have the opposite effect, of benefitting the life of the parish-places and parish-people.

Second: why you don’t really want a pastor to helm multiple (i.e., independent) parishes

This is what many people think they want. They want their parish-place and parish-people to stay on their own as they have been. They fear the combination of the parish-corporation will inevitably lead to the end of what they love about parish-place and parish-people.

There is a kernel of truth in this, which I will touch on below. But let’s deal with why you actually don’t want to maintain the go-it-alone parish structures, when the multiple parishes share now, and will for an indefinite time to come, share a pastor.

A pastor has a moral duty to that parish-corporation that must not be compromised. He must act in its best interest. He must review records, keep track of all assets, that is, the “patrimony,” and he must lead the pastoral care of the parish-people. If he is asked to do this not only for St. Kunagunda, but also St. Christina the Astonishing, etc., he must act, in effect, as three separate pastors. This is the point that isn’t really understood until you’ve lived it. Very often, the pastor must “personify” his parish, especially in relation to other parishes. This is bound up with how Canon law describes him as the “juridical person.”

So think about that: Father Ernest, Pastor of St. Sylvester, must personify that parish to Father Ernest (himself!), pastor of St. Christina; then, again, he must represent those to, to himself, as pastor of St. Kunagunda.

Couldn’t he conflate these distinct fiduciary responsibilities? Yes! It’s called combining the parish-corporations into one; but as long as there are distinct corporations, he must manage, somehow, to avoid a conflict of interests. And they come up rather more frequently than you may realize. They are not so hard to avoid if he has good cooperation among the lay collaborators of the several parishes; but that doesn’t always happen. Then what?

If you maintain separate legal entities, then you must maintain separate accounts, separate books, separate inventories of assets, and separate lines of accountability. This multiplies the time the pastor must spend reviewing books and inventories; and it adds a special complication: creating special structures and methods of preventing improper commingling; and avoiding suspicion of the same.

Let me summarize it this way. I’ve lived this reality both where there is good cooperation and refusal to cooperate; the latter is awful, but the former is still difficult. My first year in my present assignment – leading three distinct parishes that will eventually come together — was made so much more bearable because everyone knew we were moving toward becoming one family. Had that not been in view, the past year would have been extremely difficult.

To state it simply: if you don’t understand why this is difficult for the pastor, ask questions and listen.

Two examples, both real:

  1. a) Parish-corporations that share pastors will inevitably share some expenses, perhaps quite a lot of expenses, especially if they share employees. Quite a lot of time will be spent on analyzing, proposing, debating, negotiating, implementing, and evaluating plans of sharing and distributing those expenses. Then it all has to be re-done every few years, because the odds of getting it right the first time are nil. It’s all about what’s “fair,” and that is far from obvious or uniform. “Fair” is whatever everyone can live with.
  2. b) Pastors will inevitably be moving from site to site as they carry out their duties. It becomes tremendously easy for valuable items to “drift” from site to site with him. As a result, it’s remarkably easy for sacred vessels, vestments, ritual books and other things to migrate. Not a big deal, until it is. “Where’s the ciborium that was donated 50 years ago?” It may seem a small thing, but again, from actual experience, it’s a headache to keep track of, but if I don’t make sure it’s attended to, it can become a real problem and an injustice.

Some will say, but the pastor should simply give responsibility for money, for budgeting, for oversight, to others! Let him focus on spiritual things!

First, that’s a kind of gnosticism to separate the temporal from the spiritual. God didn’t create us as angels, but as body-soul combinations.

Second, what that really means is that the priest goes from being the leader of the parish, to an employee. Whoever makes the decisions about the physical assets is in charge, whether that be the priest, or a deacon, or a single layperson, or a committee of laypeople. The latter was tried: it was called “trusteeism.” It became a huge problem, and a recent example is the sad story of St. Stanislaus Kostka Church in St. Louis. Short story: a Catholic parish, administered by a lay corporation, ended up not being a Catholic parish. A bad end for anyone who wants to safeguard the parish-place and parish-people by demoting the priest from leader to “sacramental minister.” And don’t tell me, “but that’s not what we intend!” The good folks who set St. Stanislaus on that bad road didn’t intend the outcome either.

Third, the other option is to accept poor pastoral leadership as “normal”: if a man must lead multiple, legally separate parish-corporations, he will be a miserable pastor who tries, but fails, to do an impossible job; or an absentee pastor who happily doesn’t try. Hard to see how either is good for the parish-people or parish-place, even as it protects the independence of the parish-corporations!

The point I’m making is this: given the reality of not enough pastor-capable priests, that narrows our options. I wish it were otherwise! But for now, and for the foreseeable future, we have too many parishes for too few pastors. At this point, combining the parish-corporation offers a way to minimize the pastor’s time spent complying with the demands of muliple parish-corporations, increasing the time he can give to the parish-places and parish-people.

And here’s a point I wanted to make earlier. A lot of people are mad at the Archbishop, and those he consulted, about this whole reorganization — as if this came out of nowhere. The event you are unhappy about didn’t happen in the last two or three years; it was already underway 20-plus years ago: when we knew pastors leading multiple parishes was the reality that wasn’t going to change quickly. I’m not saying it cannot change; and to his credit, Archbishop Schnurr has tried to change it. But at some point, you can’t pretend reality isn’t real, especially when it comes at the cost of miserable pastors who are told they must give their parishioners the pretense of things not changing all that much, or do-the-minimum pastors who let things go; they will go for quite awhile before people realize how far gone things are.

Yes, combining parishes does involve loss

I’m not going to pretend it is all positive. There is something lost when you no longer have each church (parish-place) as a stand-alone parish-corporation. When you create a new, larger entity — call it the combo-parish — helmed by a single pastor, it isn’t only the legal structures that become one. In some fashion, it all becomes one.

Indeed, the term “family” is very helpful here. Has anyone ever heard of a family that embraces more than one physical home? With multiple traditions and activities, that not all take part in? Of course! Isn’t that exactly how most extended families operate?

I realize this raises questions, but it seems to me, most of the success or failure of this depends on how people respond. If the people who identify with St. Sylvester must start to share their beloved church, and events, with people who identify with St. Christina and St. Kunagunda, is it really all “loss”?

Cannot each part of this new family have a moment to consider, “what special thing do I bring to this family?” Each member of a family is unique; yet part of the larger family. So cannot St. Kunagunda continue to be a special parish-people and parish-place, while becoming part of a united parish-corporation? I readily believe it can fail: but please tell me why you think it must fail.

Father Martin Fox is pastor of the NE-9 Family of Parishes, including Our Lady of Good Hope, Saint Mary of the Assumption and Saint Henry, in Dayton. This article first appeared at Fox’s blog, Bonfire of the Vanities.

Father Martin Fox: Why Are Parishes Being Combined as One

Learn more about the modification of parishes (e.g. combining parishes, “closing” of church buildings, etc.) on the Pastoral Planning Pathway

For many years the CMA has been present in the archdiocese supporting health care professionals in living out their faith through their everyday work as physicians, nurses and in other vital health care roles. Our local CMA Guilds in both Cincinnati and Dayton had been present in their communities though not visibly active for a long period of time. Over the last twenty years there has been an effort to reinvigorate the CMA Guilds and to increase their membership and thus this communication.

In a world in which medical science has advanced rapidly there is great need for Catholic health care professionals to have moral guidance in matters of faith and science as well as fellowship and moral support in the ever increasing secularization of the medical field and science. The CMA Guilds in their relationship to the CMA national organization support our doctors, nurses and many others in the  practice of their faith in the context of their important work and ministry. There are many physicians in the Cincinnati and Dayton area who are already members of their Guilds and now would like to invite others to join through an appeal via our parishes.

Please use this information in an upcoming parish bulletin, parish email, social media campaign, or other medium. We would also ask some invitational announcement at the weekend liturgies bringing attention to the flyer for the health care professionals who are your parishioners.

As the Guild President in Dayton is stepping down due to job changes please direct all inquiries from all areas of the archdiocese to the email address on the flyer for membership and other information.

Fathers, you will note a vacancy in the Chaplain position for the Cincinnati Guild – your ministry would be most welcome and appreciated. Please contact Fr. Jan Schmidt if interested or for any background information on the CMA.

A reflection by Leisa Anslinger, primary presenter at May 11 Grateful Disciples Orientation

Let’s be clear, there is no magic bullet, no one-size-fits-all program that will change your Family of Parishes overnight. There are proven practices, however. The six guiding principles of Beacons of Light point to the crucial areas that must be addressed if we are to bring about the sort of life that we seek in our parishes for the future. Among the principles is stewardship, a way of living as disciples that has the potential to transform people’s lives and the life of the parish.

First, let’s name what stewardship is and is not:

  • Stewardship is not just a fancy way to convince your people to give more money to their parish. While financial giving is part of stewardship, it is not the whole of what stewardship is about.
  • Likewise, stewardship isn’t completely captured in the phrase “time, talent, and treasure,” although those things are important in helping people become better stewards.
  • Stewardship is a way of life. In fact, it is deeply spiritual. Stewardship helps people see God’s grace in their many blessings and gifts, grow in gratitude for them, and give them back in grateful response.

We bring this up now because there is an upcoming opportunity for you and your people to learn more about stewardship and the potential impact for your Family of Parishes. Here are some steps you can consider:

Come to the Grateful Disciples orientation on May 11. We know pastors are busy, especially this time of year and want to assure you there will be other opportunities to experience the day in the autumn. The orientation not only explores the key themes of stewardship as a spiritual way of life; participants will also walk through the steps most often used to effectively establish stewardship in the Family. There is no cost for the orientation. Registration is necessary by end of day Friday, May 5 to ensure materials and lunch for all. Register here.

Identify a stewardship champion for your Family if you are ready to do so and ask that person to attend the Grateful Disciples orientation. Some pastors have said they do not feel they know enough about stewardship to name one person as their champion. This is totally understandable. Having a champion will help you delegate some of the leadership when you are ready. Like many leadership roles in your Family, the champion might change over time as you become more familiar with your staff and parishioner leaders. Know more about discerning your stewardship champion.

Send a few staff or parishioner leaders to the Grateful Disciples orientation, especially if you’re not yet ready to name a champion or if you already have stewardship core teams in your Family. Register here by end of day Friday, May 5.